4 Steps To Lose Weight After Failed Dieting

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You may have been excited and compliant with your weight loss program, exercise routine or diet a few months ago, but recently you got off track. So how do you return to losing weight again?

First, select the best weight loss program for your individual needs. What have you tried in the past and failed? Choose something different. Or what has worked in the past? Do it again! Don't just try the latest craze or a diet that your best friend swears by.

Second, find accountability. You can't do this alone because it is too hard. You need someone to help you, especially during your moments of temptation. It can be someone you look up to, someone you relate to, or just someone who wants to help. It can also be a support group such as in Weight Watchers. Check in for accountability at least once per week, and be honest about your struggles. Without someone to hold you to your commitment, you could easily give in or give up. Call this person when you need motivation to resist overeating.

Third, exercise! Do not neglect this part of your weight loss program. It is just as important as eating right. Make exercise a habit in your daily routine by planning it into your day. It must become a priority, and that should never change (even once you achieve your weight loss). The cheapeast and easiest form of exercise is a walking or jogging program. Other convenient alternatives are workout videos or exercise equipment. But I don't recommend spending money on equipment or a membership unless you are committed to exercising consistently.

Fourth, remember that changing your lifestyle is permanent; it is not a yo-yo diet. The best way to lose weight and keep it off is to do so at a slow and steady pace. The healthy habits you form during this process should last forever. The same components that help you lose weight will also enable you to maintain your new, healthy weight. For example, if eliminating sodas and desserts has helped you to lose 20 pounds, don't add them back into your diet except on rare or special occasions. It initially takes willpower to say no to junk food or to say yes to workouts, but it will become a habit with time. Remember that on January 1, everyone says no to sweets. Be the person who still says no in June, October, or even December!

How To Avoid Holiday Weight Gain

With Thanksgiving this week, the season of holiday weight gain is heavy upon us. So how can you avoid gaining weight until the new year arrives? This is especially important if you have been losing weight this past year or are working hard to maintain the weight loss you have achieved.

1. Use your holiday time off to do some additional exercise. Don't just lounge before and after holiday meals but do some exercise or at least something active!
2. Limit your portions during larger holiday meals. Stick to 1 medium plateful and 1 small dessert.
3. Choose calories carefully. Be picky about which foods you really like and are willing to indulge on. Skip the others.
4. Limit your desserts. Try 1 slice of pie instead of 1 of each. Or have a small sliver of each, if you like to try the varieties.
5. Eat more vegetables and fewer carbs. And remember that veggies can taste good outside of casseroles and without bacon. They just need the right seasoning.
6. Stop eating when you are satisfied. Don't eat again until you are hungry.
7. Be sure your between-meal snacks are small and healthy. Choose the fruit or veggie tray instead of the cheese/pepperoni/crackers.
8. Drink more water and fewer calorie-filled beverages.
9. Remember that a healthy lifestyle does not have to stop during the holidays. Maintain the same healthy habits that you have been practicing.
10. Shop in stores instead of online.
11. Don't lie down if you can sit. Don't sit if you can stand. Don't stand if you can walk. Don't walk if you can run. Remember that some people are unable to do these things and they would give anything to be able to walk or run again. Don't take your mobility for granted.

10 most convenient ways to exercise

1. Go for a walk in your neighborhood. Take your dogs. Take your kids. Walk to the park instead of driving. Walk 10 blocks instead of taking the subway or taxi. Look for an excuse to get out of the house!

2. Walk around the block on your lunch break. If you have an hour for lunch, use 30 minutes for exercise! If you have a desk job, be intentional about moving around during lunchtime and other breaks.

3. Ride a stationary bike while watching TV. If you have little time or ability to exercise outside of the home, consider buying a stationary bike, which is cheaper than a 6-month gym membership.

4. Take the stairs (every time)! Make it your routine, whether 1 flight or 5.


5. Go window shopping. Walk around town or the mall. And next time you are tempted to shop online, spend the time actually going to the store.

6. Go to the gym on your way to or from work. Be sure to choose one that is on your route. Or take advantage of the gym at work. If you are on a time budget, just work out for 30 minutes.

7. Play chase with your children or pets. This is an easy way to get your heart rate up quickly. And your babies will love you for it.

8. Do housework or yardwork. Try to work for 30-60 straight minutes. And use good body mechanics by squatting frequently.


9. Do jumping jacks, push-ups and crunches at home. Or use an exercise DVD. This is an ideal option for young moms during naptime!

10. Stand up while using your laptop or phone. Standing burns more calories than sitting. And it is a better position for your back!